Posts such like this mentioned here at this forum seem to be forsaken for thei better half found online. i believe https://www.australian-writings.org/ analyzes such differences well enough. This makesunderstand which is the better half.
i think most riders would prefer to stop and have breakfast out like normal. Those that have to get back for other commitments can carry on without stopping. Just an idea but it worked out ok at Hartington recently. The group may get split but then everyone gets the choice